I was surfing the net one afternoon when someone came to my inbox and the following dialogue going on between us:
She: Sister Debby, can I confide in you?
Me: sure, feel free, please.
She: I was once a rape victim and that made me hate every brother. Three months ago, a brother approached me for marriage and after seeking God's face, I became positive about him becoming my husband but the issue is that I am finding it hard to love and relate well with him due to my past rape experience. What can I do ma?
Me: I feel so sorry for the horrible experience you once went through but you need to heal first before going into a relationship so that you won't hate him.
She: but how can I do this ma? I have tried and tried but I am not getting a positive result.
Me: First, seek divine healing from God, see a therapist and open up to your partner. Tell him everything he needs to know and if he is truly meant for you just as you stated earlier, he will help you heal and fall in love with him. #fiction#
Rape is something no lady should experience but once it happens, there is nothing to do to undo the situation. The only thing to do here is to ask God for divine healing.
I have heard of so many ladies becoming depressed as a result of this while some commit suicide. I tell you, rape isn't the end of the world, even though it happens to you, you can still be a vessel in the hands of God. Don't shut your heart from falling in love because of rape instead open up to your partner and let him help you to heal. I ask God to heal every bleeding heart as a result of rape.
Dear brothers, don't make the sisters become a shadow of themselves by molesting them. See them as your blood sisters and I tell you, you won't have any reason to cause them pain.
Thanks for reading,
I hope life is touched.